📚 Back to School: How to Talk with Your Child’s Teacher About Academic Struggles📚

The beginning of a new school year brings fresh notebooks, clean lunchboxes, and high hopes. But for many parents, it also brings quiet concerns—especially if your child has previously struggled with reading, writing, spelling, or math. If you're already noticing signs of frustration or your gut is telling you something isn't quite right, now is the time to open the door to honest communication with your child’s teacher.

💬 Start the Conversation Early

Don't wait for the first report card. Teachers appreciate proactive communication and want to partner with you. Send a kind, thoughtful email or request a quick meeting:

“I’ve noticed my child is struggling with [reading/spelling/math], and I’d love to hear how they’re doing in class. Could we connect soon to share observations?”

This sets the tone for teamwork, not confrontation. You know your child best—and your insights can help teachers tailor support.

🔍 What to Share and Ask

• Share specific examples from home (e.g., avoiding reading, flipping letters, taking hours to complete homework).

• Ask if the teacher has noticed similar challenges.

• Inquire about what supports are already in place in the classroom.

• Ask if your child is reading/writing/performing math at grade level.

  
  

🚩 When to Consider an Evaluation

If your child has consistent challenges in foundational areas like decoding, spelling, number sense, or written expression, and those struggles persist despite quality instruction, it may be time to request an evaluation.A psychoeducational evaluation (through the school or a private provider) can help determine if your child has a learning disability such as:

• Dyslexia (reading/spelling)

• Dysgraphia (writing)

• Dyscalculia (math)

Early identification leads to early intervention—and that can change everything.

💡 Keep the Dialogue Open

Academic struggles can feel emotional for both parents and children. Keeping an open, collaborative dialogue with your child’s teacher helps create a circle of support. You’re not alone—and neither is your child.

My son, Ryker and his best buddy, Faith, on the first day of 8th grade-tomorrow high school here we come!

At My Learning Farm, we help families navigate this journey with compassion, advocacy, and evidence-based support. Whether you need help interpreting an evaluation, understanding next steps, or boosting your child’s confidence—we’re here to help learning grow.